When someone in your household assigns an item to you, you decide whether to take it on.

What this does

  • Shows a banner on items that have been assigned to you.
  • Lets you accept, adjust the proposed reminder time, or decline.
  • Confirms back to the assigner so they know you've seen it.

When to use this

  • Your partner sends you a task and you want to confirm you're on it.
  • You'd rather not take it on right now — decline so they know.
  • The proposed reminder time doesn't suit you.

How it works

  1. The item appears in your Inbox with an assignment banner.
  2. Tap Accept to take it on as-is.
  3. Tap Adjust time to change a suggested reminder before accepting.
  4. Tap Decline if you can't take it on.
  5. The assigner sees a small status update — Seen, Accepted, or Declined.

Important things to know

  • A suggested reminder is inactive until you accept. It won't ping your phone uninvited.
  • Accepting moves the item into your active list and turns on the reminder (if there was one).
  • Declining notifies the assigner. They can reassign or take it back themselves.

Common questions

  • What if I accept then change my mind? Open the item, edit the assignee, or remove yourself from owners.
  • Will my partner see if I'm late? They see the same item. Overdue states are visible to everyone it's shared with.